As we move forward to the next phase in our lives, I appreciate that people who have not cared about us previously, be there for us or know use BOTH personally keep their own opnions to themselves. We have been together for 5 years, no matter what decisions we make, we will be the one going through it, our future is the one at stake. Don't try to say some 'smart' stuff if you don't know what we went through. It took us a lot to finally come up with this decision, so everyone just keep your mouth to yourselves. If you have not been praying for us or guiding us through, you really have no right to bud in right now. We only care about what God thinks, not what you think.